Is It Safe To Use A Online Swinger Dating Site?
31 December 2009
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Ok I want to experience something crazy with a woman I wouldn’t normally be with. But I am very cautious person. Is it safe to use a online swinger dating site? I mean what is the risk of being robbed or getting into scam?
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Yes, it’s as safe (if not safer) than just picking-up some stranger in a bar. However, you’ll find that as a single male it is very difficult to break into the swinger lifestyle with couples and there are not a whole lot of single females on swinger dating sites.
It’s hard for a single male to break into the lifestyle with couples because there have been so many single males that just “don’t get it” and have ruined the fun for others that come after them. What I mean by “don’t get it” is that they are lecherous and rude and think that just because a woman is on a swingers dating site that they are looking for sex anytime, anywhere and with anyone.
Nothing could be further from the truth. Swingers are people just like anyone else and the same rules that would apply to trying to score with a single girl you met at work or at a night club applies to swinger women, also. The fact is that most swingers have very plentiful and satisfying sex lives at home with their spouse so they don’t need you, but if they have a certain MFM threesome fantasy or they like to play where the wife goes out and is naughty with someone else, than they will be looking for you.
The other thing is that for every couple looking to add a single male to their sex play there are two single males looking for them. Your odds that way are terrible. By comparison, there are 25 couples looking for single women for every single woman looking for a couple.
If you do get lucky and a couple wants to meet you you are going to be pretty dang safe. Most couples will want to meet you in a public place like a restaurant or sports bar, etc. to see if there is any chemistry and if they want to go further with you. Also, some websites like Swingular validate their members as “Real” or “VIP” meaning they have have provided proof to the website owner that they are who they say they are.
I hope that helps. For some good information about being a single guy in the lifestyle, check-out The Swingers Board forums. Believe me, there are plenty of couples looking for a good single guy, so if you can stand-out from the crowd you’ll do well.
With out a doubt the best Free online dating site is..
http://www.DownToEarth.com. They are a brand new 100% Free Dating website that is very clean design and easy to use.
Enjoy!!!
the risks are very high of being scammed and so on, if I were you I would rather look for ads in the paper or magazines (and so on)
Probably about as safe as it is to be a swinger these days.
Probably 50 percent, just post whatever you want to do on craigs list those sites are full of freaks and criminals.
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