He has been in a committed relationship for a couple of years and loves his girlfriend. He called her many times a day and took her out as often as they could go. She was very supportive of his job loss and all the other major stressors in his life, and she built him up regularly. Why did he put up an online profile on a dating website? Is he bored or does he need validation? When she found out about it and confronted him, he pulled away. She is hurt and confused.