26 And Single What Is?
the problem. im 26 been single for 4 years. i am very attractive, have a down to earth personality. i am christian, i like swimming, hiking, and id rather bbq on the lake than get my nails done. the problem is that i get a lot of guys that like me, but, they are either wierdos or guys that do drugs, or drink alot. why is it hard to find a decent guy?? a guy who wants a family someday, someone who doesnt do drugs etc. i dont know how i meet these losers i go to college and i dont go o places where they could easily pick me up.
i see my best friend, she is not attractive, and sometimes she spends a little too much of her bf’s $ on getting her hair done all the time. and he is the type of guy that i would totally care for, and she doesnt. so why are the good guys settling for less!? are good men intimidated by good women? im confused










Most probably the good guys are intimidated by the good woman.
Or, the good guys are too happy with what they have and what they have got.
Or, they just wants to make their lives simply nice.
By the way, sometimes it happens, so let the time do something good for you.
I really don’t know your definition for good guys. But one thing i just wanna share- those guys who talk sharp and short, with humor and without hurting others at the same time caring would suit to you. If i am wrong i beg your pardon.
A couple things:
The “decent” guys may be too decent to openly hit on you.
-or-
It could be the way you are dressing and presenting yourself, even though you may not know it. Many “decent” guys, myself included, go for girls who look classy : P
I don’t know you, and that may have nothing to do with it, but just an idea. The right guy will hopefully show up eventually, don’t settle for a loser!
~A decent guy