If You Met Someone At An Online Dating Site, Would You Think This Was Moving Too Fast?
16 February 2010
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i met someone at an online dating site. We had the first date (dinner), then the second was a movie….now he would like to hang out friday at my house and bring pizza and a movie….and this weekend go to a ski day trip.
I am not sure I am attracted to him, but am willing to give it the chance. Is this moving way too fast as I am dumb at all this dating stuff.
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I too online date at Live Date Search and i guess what you are having is a good thing and your not going too fast.
Yes. Way to fast. At this point he shouldn’t even know where you live. Besides hanging out at YOUR place with a pizza? How cheap! Why not his place. Will his wife be in the way or does his mom not allow visitors after 8? Weekend ski trip? Forget about it. Have you met any of his family or co-workers? He might leave your body buried up in those mountains. If he’s really interested in you he’ll slow down and let things develop if that’s what you want. And when you do go out make sure someone knows where you’re going and who you’re with.
I think it sounds like a good time and good spacing. Keep things on a light easy level. It sounds like you guys must have hit it off on the first date to continue plans. The fact that you have plans for a third, and forth date is a good sign. If things start to get too fast for you let him know. You want to keep things comfortable for the both of you.
I met my boyfriend on an online dating site as well. We have been together for just shy of two years now. I believe whole heartedly in these sites. It sound like you are having a good time. Keep it up hun! I don’t think it sounds like things are going too fast at all. If you are comfortable you might even try holding hands or something on that 4th date. Be careful with the movie night. It can lead to so discomfort when it comes to seating while watching the movie. If you are comfortable with it though, sit close and try a little cuddling.
Allot of women like men whom cuddle, so find out if its something he likes too. Do not let things get out of hand or too hot and heavy. Do not do anything you will regret the next day. Just have fun and go with the flow. There are no expectations on these first few dates. Keep it fun and simple!
Good luck hun!
To fast, if anything you are moving to slow! I got matched up with a girl in the morning, talked to her all day, went out with her that night and she forced me to have sex with her that night. Six week later we are are still dating and I think she could be the one! She is probably reading this right now, since I’m going to send her the link. Hi Nicole. Love you.
its not movin gtoo fast if either one of u has a prob with doing all this stuff, but honey dont lead him on if ur not feeling it
i think its the perfect pace