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What Is The Best Kind Of Place To Meet Guys?

16 February 2010 499 views 2 Comments

I have 3 kids, and I don’t think any of the places I’ve been told to try will help. I don’t want to meet a guy online, and I do want a guy who will go to church, but don’t want to meet him there. I was thinking of starting a swing dance or yoga class, but I don’t think very many straight guys will be into that sort of thing. I have been single for 1 1/2 years since my fiance died, and I feel like I’m desperate for a companion. I meet plenty of people who are interested in me, but I can’t see myself even trying to be with them. What can I do?
I do think of my kids first, and they are THE most important thing in my life, but they miss their dad, and while understanding that he can never come back, they have told me they want some kind of father figure…or in their words, a step dad. I want to give them what they want but also don’t want to put that on ANY man. I just want a good man in my life, that can be a good role model for my kids.

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  • mean_she said:

    I don’t blame you for not wanting to meet a man at the places you mentioned. You sound like you have your head on straight and I think because of that things will break your way in time.
    You mentioned that plenty of people that are interested in you but you can’t see yourself even trying to be with them. If you have plenty of suitors and not one pleases you, perhaps you are very picky. Or maybe you aren’t really ready for a relationship yet and could just use some companionship. Take your time, your children will understand when they get older what you are going through. Best wishes.

  • sajan said:

    if you are serious the go to the matrimonial sites or office.give your case histery there then only you can find serious one.

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