What The H*ell Does She Expect And What Do I Do?
Ok, there is a woman who I thought of as my best friend. We worked at the same place & did lots of things together with our kids who are all pretty close to the same age. She found a man, moved him into her house on the1ST date!! and got mad at me when I told her I thought that was incredibly stupid. Then he got fired from 2 jobs in a row for stealing. Then she started stealing money and merchandise from work. She was in a position to use my numbers and another girls numbers to help her do this. We knew nothing about our numbers being abused, and we were all fired the other day for this crime. The other girl and I were fired and pending investigation shouldn’t be charged. The 1st girl was allowed to go home, but will be prosecuted. Then she just called and said “Please help me. Let me live with you or you come here for the rest of the week, because he just beat the crap out of me and I’m scared.” He left the house. I am pissed because she cost me my job & I’m newly single w/
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Let her go. She’ll only dig you a deeper hole. Think of your own kids, do you want to bring that kind of trouble into your house? I wouldn’t be suprised if she don’t take the scum bag back. She’s NO FRIEND!!! Are you willing to pay a bigger price that what you have already paid? Call it a LOSS on this friendship and raise your kids the right way!!!!!
tell her to go to hell…..
Umm……idk?!?!……call Dr.Phill:)
Well, first of all if you were brought up Christian and still consider yourself Christian then, settle down a little bit. The way you are talking on here if you are christian is making christians look bad. I do not mean to offend you but it is true. You can not trust any person totally. But the bible says that if your enemy asks you for something, do not withhold it from them. Remember anything that you have now or ever had was given to you by God. Everything on this earth and the fullness thereof is Gods’ . Most of the time, Gods’ will goes against our human thinking. Your heart must be open to do Gods’ will . Sure she messed up big time!!! But think of how you and I have messed up with God! We did big time!!! There is no difference! The bible says “If a man says he loves God and hates his brother, then, he is a liar. For how can he love God who he has not seen but hate his brother whom he has seen” She is your sister in Christ. She might be a messed up case but it is up to you to let Gods’ forgiveness and His light to shine in her life. Jesus told his disciple that you should not forgive your brother 7 times but 70 times 7. If you were to leave her as she is then, she will not see anything in you as far as Godliness goes. If you however, forgive her, she will wonder why. Then you can witness to her that It is the will of God that you forgive her and you might save her soul from hell. Please, do not get offended with me but sounds like you need to put your own self straight with God before you judge her. If you are not living for God then, you do what you want. You will make a mess of things in doing so. But if you want to truly follow God, get yourself repented then, ask Him for guidance. He will direct you. Just open your heart! Nothing else matters. Even though your situation looks bad, that is where faith comes in. You must beleive that He will bring you through it. Dont worry! Trust Him! If you want to further talk, Write to me at aigaaru2003@yahoo.com . God be with you and direct you into His righteousness!
I think for now, just give her a second chance and let her live in your house, but only for ONE night. Tell her she needs to find a place tomorrow, or else you WILL kick her out, because you have your own life too. I know she’s done so many things wrong, so talk to her about it, but let it go afterwards, and perhaps when you do, she will realize what a great friend you have been and how stupid she has been.
Show her tough love. I wouldn’t help someone that cost me my job. She also got you in trouble with the law.
there are such things as toxic friendships, and what you described fits the bill. i say break ties with this woman, otherwise she is just going to bring you down with her and make your life even worse.
It sucks, but sometimes it’s the only way.
tell the truth!!!!!!!
Quick fix… have her write a letter confessing that it was her and her alone that was a thief… then the two/three of you need to take it to the store manager. If this Woman is ever going to be regarded as a friend… she needs to stand up and be accountable vor her actions… Love isn’t just blind… and sometimes the price “we” pay for a good errr “*gasm” is waaay to high… forgive your “friend” she needs help… so be there for her …and with her…. when she steps up to the plate on this incident…
Absolutely… before she takes one step into your house… She needs to write out that confession in order to clear your good name…
Good luck.
I am sorry to hear about your predicament.
You need to put yourself first in this instance, and NOT let her move in or live with her. If you are under an investigation then this is how it needs to be. If you are found not guilty, then you can always say that you got fired wrongly. And that looks a heck of a lot better than being fired for embezzlement.
After all the smoke clears, its up to you. She stabbed you in the back by stealing under your name. I would never feel the same way about that person again. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t try and be a friend again.
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