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Wheres A Good Place To Find A Single Guy In His 20′s?

15 February 2010 254 views 6 Comments

I recently got a gymm membership and figured that I would meet some cute/nice guys there but all I find are steroids boys..Im ready to find a good guy. Any suggestions? And how do I start a convo with them? Thanks!

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  • Star_132 said:

    The best way to meet a good man is through a reliable source (aka: a friend). Ask your friends if they have any single guy friends that you would get along with. That way you already know they are a good guy.
    If that doesn’t work, you could always join more activities, like sports leagues. The easiest way to meet a guy is the toughest way — just to be outgoing and have the “balls” to go up to a new guy and talk with him. He might be a great guy or he might be a jerk, but you’ll never know if you dont’ talk to him.

  • rick k said:

    right here in florida

  • Jason B said:

    This place is a good start.

  • Serious Business said:

    Transylvania University.

  • kianti m said:

    well maybe at the club that where all 20 years men at ok!!!!!!!!

  • Matt said:

    The best advice I can give you is stop looking. I know it’s kind of cliche, but it really does happen when you are looking. That’s how I met my wife. I always wanted to be in a relationship, but it kept not happening. One day I decided I didn’t care anymore and would stop worrying about it. Then I went on a month long study abroad trip to Europe. I never even once thought that maybe I would meet someone on the trip. I wasn’t looking. 5 minutes after getting to LAX I met one of the girls that was coming on the trip. We were attached at the hip the entire trip and we’ve been together ever since.
    You should just do things you like to do. If yo like going to the gym, then keep doing that. If you like reading, go hang out at a book store that has a cafe. Just do things you enjoy and someone will come along eventually.
    If you want to initiate a conversation, that depends on where you are. Maybe you end up going to a book store, if he’s reading, ask him what it is even if you already know. Ask him about the book. Basically, ask him a question and let him talk about himself. Guys like talking about themselves.
    If you want him to initiate the conversation, try to make eye contact. If you do, smile at him just a little. Then look at him again. He’ll probably come over.
    Anyway, that’s my 2 cents, hope it helps!

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