Who Has Done The Online Dating Thing?
20 February 2010
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I don’t get a chance to meet many men. And I don’t think that meeting them at bars is really the best thing! I’ve started “online dating.”. I meet one guy from there. He was really nice but there wasn’t any sparks. Now I’m talking to another guy… How many guys am I going to have to meet until I find someone that I have chemistry with?
Anyone else have this problem?
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I had that same problem. Since your a girl, you’ll attract allot of guys. Best thing to do is weed out the ones you don’t like by finding out what you like (in a person, activities, hobbies, etc) and learning if they like the same. I’d say use email or MSN to do this, and as a result, you can weed out most of the bad, and the not so sure or the ok ones, go on a simple date, and see if it’s worth it or not.
I used plenty of fish dot com, and it was allot better then allot of online dating websites since they charge (to the guys), and since I’m still a student, I don’t feel like to pay lots of money for that service.
It really doesn’t matter where you meet people, men in your case, it’s what happens, after you meet them.
As you said, he was nice, but no real chemistry between you.
So you just keep trying until you find the man that fits you.
Think of it as a Chemistry problem, it’s very rare, that a test will pass the first time, it’s usually takes dozens of tries.
Like the Gentleman, who died this week, who invented WD 40, that forty was his fortieth try at getting the right formula.
So go out with those guys, and make up your mind to have fun, whatever happens. If you find the right one, great, but at least have a good time, during your searches. If you do meet one, and it’s not going well at all, then, just tell him, “Sorry, this isn’t working out” and go home. No use wasting your time, if you see no good prospect happening.
I have done the online dating thing and have vowed never to get myself involved in that nonsense ever again. You have to be very careful when you are with these guys as you don’t know who they truly are. Most of them are liars and often misrepresent themselves. Be realistic and accept the fact that you will probably never find someone that you will have chemistry with. Join a club, hang around the mall, or simply talk to a guy at random if you truly want to meet a nice guy.
I have and met my now fiancee last year. First time trying an online dating service too. But online dating is really a misconception. You can’t date online. It’s a great way to meet people you might not otherwise meet but you have to go out on dates to find out if there’s chemistry. Just don’t spend too much time “online dating” by sending messages back-and-forth to get to know each other. See if there’s potential interest, then go out on a date, and invest the energy if they still interest you.
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Well, I met this girl online, but not through a dating service. There is no telling how many men you shall have to meet in order to find Mr. Perfect. You might have to be very picky and scan for the right profiles, hobbies, etc. I’m not sure of this information is available before you actually arrange a meeting with another person, but gain as much info as you possibly can and give it a try!
I had that problem in the beginning. Just keep searching and everything will work out for the best. Make sure to try out different dating websites. Each have their advantages that may help you in finding the right person. Here a site referred to me by a friend that reviewed some free dating services. Hope it helps
Be veryy careful with that.
But I’m sure it will take a while.
Not every guy is the perfect guy for you ya know?
But you can still give them a chance.
But any time you meet up with one of the guys make sure it’s in a public place because you don’t want anything to go wrong.
Good luck!
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